I came across my cousin's blog yesterday. Not came across actually but she gave me the link and told me to check it out. So I look around and was surprised that she had converted to become a very strong Christian. From everywhere on her blog, she keep giving quotes and etc from the bible. I was thinking......ai yah.........was she really into the fate or was it all because of bf or peer pressure and etc. FYI, the woman in my family......meaning relatives and etc........has a history of unable to get attached or find that someone special. Therefore, I have many of them aunties who are single in their mid 40's and also the current batch of generation Y who are also co-incidentally single. Not sure was it curse, luck, fate.....called it what you want but the fact is all of them....the woman are unable to find that someone special. Its really frustrating for them and also very stress up thinking about their future. Hence I get the impression that all of my cousins are in one way or another under pressure.
Therefore the next question was is she under pressure to take 2nd instead of first choice ? She has change so much. I always thought she was those prim Donna type cause she came from a well to do family. Furthermore I had always thought she was a little bit arrogant and obnoxious. Nevertheless she was my cousin and a family ....therefore I don't feel anything about it. I was kind of surprise too that she had been going out with this Chinese Malaysian for almost 4 yrs now. All the while I thought she only prefer Ah Moh Lang since she had spend some time in the land of Oz. The last I heard about her was she was with an Aussie. Guess the relationship must had fail. Its funny how she has changed. I only hope she had changed for the better and not as destructive as ever. This raise the point ........is having boys more of blessing than girls ? Boys and girls are rebellious but at the end of the day you lose more with girls than boys. Full stop.
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