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Published Friday, September 29, 2006 by SaiRay. 
Today I would like to talk about people and attitude. I think you agreed with me if I say we have a varieties, type, colour and etc.....so there's no question of varieties here and on the background. I will try to list down as many as possible people of different kind with different attitude in this blog.
My observation:
1. There are the old fashion type and stereotype who can't discuss liberal issue including the big 3 letter words.
2. Fanatic type who only belief they are always right and shut themselves off from others opinion.
3. There are the arrogant bastard and ignorant too......most probably complement each other on the characteristic.
4. The quiet type but are the chameleon who has no opinion and follow the majority.
5. The quiet type but yet active at backstabbing you on the back whenever you turn away.
6. The wrong but yet thing its right....innocent, naive.
7. The pathetic.
8. The idiot and low class mentality who doesn't give a damn to others.
9. The bastard, a hard core case of all the above integrate together.
10. Finally the greatest of all.......the STUPID ones. No common sense nor know what it means. The tiny brain is fill with shit and cow dung only.
There you have it my 10 most despise parasite.
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Published Thursday, September 28, 2006 by SaiRay.
I'm at a crossroad for the past week now. My wife had not been very attentive nor very nice. It has all reach very platonic and very standard and procedural. Even when I am horny and needed sex, I felt like I am begging or asking for it. Before this I don't have this feeling at all but just lately all this had come out. I know she's working very hard and its tough juggling everything like work, self business and family etc but how about me. I agreed she had put more effort and if you ask me what kind of wife she is, I can tell you I will give her 9/10 scores. However, all those pressure and trouble are as expected and she's asking for it. You know you are going to face up with all this when you step your feet on doing self business and etc. Its common sense that no pain no gain. Everyone knows that. Worst of all I think this is just the beginning. There's plenty of cross road, headache, pressure and etc if everything goes well.
So where does that leave me and my kids ? I am beginning to understand why married man always and if not most goes astray and find love else where. I'm not sure what I'm thinking is right or wrong but I find asking myself many times for what and where is all this leading to ? Come on la......I believe all family 1 way or another go through this and all woman should have know already. But no.......woman are just dump stupid and pathetic. Man want attention and cuddle occasionally too but the wife is too busy with other things and doesn't make time for her man. So do you blame the man who goes looking for love elsewhere. Ai yah.......just plain stupid. I hope my wife doesn't read this cause she's very busy lately until sleeping for 3-4 hours a day only.
Another thing is, when I see her so tired, pale and ugly......not sure what I should really do. Sometimes want to be intimate with her also cannot cause looking at her just turn me off and also I just cannot and don't want to be the bad husband, inconsiderate and blah blah bla..........I am already trying my best to keep all this under lid but I don't think its doing any good. I want to improve on our relationship and etc but not sure how and what to do. Talking with her is of no use either cause you are just forcing someone to do it and its all procedural. I don't need a robot. I don't want to be a dictator or Communist either.
Maybe its the kids and I'm having post menopause syndrome. Hopefully this would go away and our communication would improve. Perhaps we need some time of our own away from the kids and etc. My thought and flashes.............
Today's tough question ?
What happen if you are surrounded by KIASU people around you. Those don't move or will inevitable run for it at the slightest hint of any trouble or take advantage and grab a penny throw by someone.
I am in this kind of situation in my company. All kiasu fellow.....btw most are younger than me but Chinese edu. What should we do ? Join them and slit people throat or grab as much or more than them ?? Now I know why Chinese people in My progresses faster than any other ethic. Because Chinese can't lose and with this KIASU attitude its their edge over others groups as well. If you don't believe me, take a look around you and see for yourself. Chinese are competitive (high class slang) because this busy body instinct is what gives them the KIASU mentality.
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Published Saturday, September 23, 2006 by SaiRay.
Check this new product that I discover. I like its ingenious design whereby the package can be broken into half easily and the honey will drip out. Its just like those chili sauce from Mac'D fast food chain but I like this idea. Great and unique.
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Published Thursday, September 21, 2006 by SaiRay.
OK wanna comment about politic. Its been awhile. Though am actively reading and listening to the issues and bickering between TM and AAB, I for once had to agreed with what Razaleigh and those old timers said. I don't think TM expect to reign again and neither do I think he's dementia, physcho or etc. In my personal opinion, I think all this started because AAB doesn't show respect to TM and in other words, TM is piss off and feel AAB is "kurang ajar - no manners". .....or there is a possibility that AAB SIL is the one who is "kurang ajar" towards TM. With that TM is trying to find fault and take a bite at both.
Its really pathetic and not making sense. How TM can lose the seat for the delegation to UMNO general assembly? Like what Razaleigh had reiterated, TM is the father of Mal Inc and has been the PM for 22 yrs. How can people forget about him and show no respect at all. I mean I don't like the guy either....in fact all politician are the same but looking at all this from a neutral angle I feel the least everybody can do is pay and show some respect to the guy. He should had won easily and with a sounding majority but perhaps money was in the way and everybody has been brought up the Japanese style never to question your boss and BOSS is always right. TM own medicine of looking east policy cause at that time he was very anti-western. To me whether you are anti-western or pro-Japanese.........all the same. We can't follow them cause we have our own culture and this is our country. We have to come out with our very own ways and policy and not copy cat western or eastern culture. Yes, Japanese are very successful cause they are loyal, obedient and committed. Well sound to me to be an ingredient for making a robot. Robot is what I describe these Japaneses.
However, on the other hand, westerner are more creative, balance and intelligent. So therefore we should strike our own middle ground and from there mold our very own philosophy and direction. The whole bickering process has left a bad taste and bad impression I have with AAB. I feel he can't control is cabinet members at all, doesn't keep his word and above all sound defeated. His "elegant silence" and keeping quiet stand is not doing his image any good at all. For goodness sake, he's the PM and he can't talk and if he talks he 's going to give those PR talks. Give instruction and with direct and firm decision la........any school going kids are taught like that. He needs to make national decision and also many unpopular decision. However, disciple and control is the most important criteria which he must master. A case in point, never had I heard him scolding or reprimand his SIL or any of his crony. That SIL of his make many uncalled for, racial and biases statement and yet he as PM and his FIL keep quiet throughput the episode. That dog of his Hisha also same. His staff make some damaging statement and he never bark at all. Instead tells everybody that in due time when everything is calm his 'mar chai' will give a statement to all. Till now I didn't see any public apology nor statement from him. What so wrong with Ong KT statement that the whole cabinet has to come out with an instruction to reprimand him. Small fly being make as a big fish to me. Funny part is Najib can tell everybody its politic and the other policy. We all know politics and policy always get mixed. Why ? Cause our government use politic to set policy and cause they are the culprit for all things here in Mal. Tell me is it politics when you have UMNO youth leaders and etc highlighting the Malays condition in Balik Pulau and then our 2nd Finance Minister coming out with special project for the Malays in Penang. Not only that 2nd bridge link and monorail are all going to be given to the special Malays to help them catch up with the rest of the ethnic group. So is that policy or politics ? You be the judge !!
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Published Monday, September 18, 2006 by SaiRay.
Was a little bit hectic and health wasn't so good lately. I had always wonder and ask why and how all these blogger keep up the pace to write stuff everyday without fail. I mean don't they have work to do or life at all. I mean for a housewife also is quite busy and all, especially if you have your own business. Just imagine if you are an IT manager or something which I undoubtedly found a few blogger to be. How to juggle family, work, and business and etc. Even if you are single/bachelor and had an outstanding and vibrant life wouldn't these blogging stuff take up some of your time.
Unless, of course bloggers are very free and do most of their blogging during working hours. But I still don't think if you are an IT manager or someone important you can keep up the heavy schedule of churning out articles, topic after topic day in day out. Its already hard struggling between work and blogging and equally taxing if you have a small family of your own. So I got to hand it to some of them for relentlessly and unconditionally doing and giving readers something to read about everyday.
Just not my cup of tea cause I'm a lightweight as far as blogging is concern.
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Published Thursday, September 07, 2006 by SaiRay.
As the above caption indicate, I would like to talked about what I see and experience a few weeks back at "The Borders". I was there, taking my kids along and hoping to scout for some books for them to read. Then I saw a small crowd of about 10-20 people gather in a small area. I converge nearer and saw that there were looking at their kids drawing. It hit me immediately that there was a mini drawing competition going on organised presumably by Borders itself.
So I carry my son and went nearer hoping to educate him and let him see what was going on. My intention was to encourage my son to draw (at home I mean) and also experience what kind of things and how other kids draw. As I was explaining to my son on the finer point of drawing and painting, I noticed that most of the kids (girls especially) had their drawing/painting covered by a pcs of cloth. I didn't suspect anything at first but then as I glance longer I saw some girls taking the cloth off a little bit and make some colouring. She was like very aware of her surrounding and not wanting others to copy her like that. I was stun and petrified. I was speechless. I thought I was in Singapore or somewhere else. I didn't want to be there and I felt embarrass and didn't know what to say to my son. Luckily my son did not ask me "Daddy what is the cloth on top of the drawing for ?". Can you imagine that. What would I say then. Oh.....that pcs of cloth is to cover the drawing so that it would not be dirty or..........u have to cover it every time so that other people cannot copy your drawing.
Just where is our society heading towards ?
