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I'm not a regular blogger just occasionally wanna share some thoughts and ideas to the rest of the world. Hope you like what you see and written.....:))
I'm at a crossroad for the past week now. My wife had not been very attentive nor very nice. It has all reach very platonic and very standard and procedural. Even when I am horny and needed sex, I felt like I am begging or asking for it. Before this I don't have this feeling at all but just lately all this had come out. I know she's working very hard and its tough juggling everything like work, self business and family etc but how about me. I agreed she had put more effort and if you ask me what kind of wife she is, I can tell you I will give her 9/10 scores. However, all those pressure and trouble are as expected and she's asking for it. You know you are going to face up with all this when you step your feet on doing self business and etc. Its common sense that no pain no gain. Everyone knows that. Worst of all I think this is just the beginning. There's plenty of cross road, headache, pressure and etc if everything goes well.
So where does that leave me and my kids ? I am beginning to understand why married man always and if not most goes astray and find love else where. I'm not sure what I'm thinking is right or wrong but I find asking myself many times for what and where is all this leading to ? Come on la......I believe all family 1 way or another go through this and all woman should have know already. But no.......woman are just dump stupid and pathetic. Man want attention and cuddle occasionally too but the wife is too busy with other things and doesn't make time for her man. So do you blame the man who goes looking for love elsewhere. Ai yah.......just plain stupid. I hope my wife doesn't read this cause she's very busy lately until sleeping for 3-4 hours a day only.
Another thing is, when I see her so tired, pale and ugly......not sure what I should really do. Sometimes want to be intimate with her also cannot cause looking at her just turn me off and also I just cannot and don't want to be the bad husband, inconsiderate and blah blah bla..........I am already trying my best to keep all this under lid but I don't think its doing any good. I want to improve on our relationship and etc but not sure how and what to do. Talking with her is of no use either cause you are just forcing someone to do it and its all procedural. I don't need a robot. I don't want to be a dictator or Communist either.
Maybe its the kids and I'm having post menopause syndrome. Hopefully this would go away and our communication would improve. Perhaps we need some time of our own away from the kids and etc. My thought and flashes.............
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Hmmm.... maybe you should tell your wife about your expectation... I believe it is important to let her know how do you feel and I am sure she will make some effort in keeping the relationship.
Actually, I just dont understand why married woman do not keep herself attractive like before....lucky I am not that group of people.... hahaha...
Actually I am looking for a job and so co incident I read your blog about interviewing at Flextronic...hmmm... gotto re consider again on my application... anyway happy blogging...
I believe it is important to let your wife know what is your exectation and how you feel loh... keeping the relationship is all about communication...
I just dont understand why married woman can spent so much time in their work and do not make some effort in keeping herself attractive... lucky I'm not that group of people....hahaha
Actually I am about apply a job at Flextronic... but after reading your comments, gotto to think twice again...happy blogging