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Hmmm…this is a very interesting subject which I would like to elaborate about. Take a look to understand the background.Can a marriage survive without sex.?
Well, according to the article it's a BIG NO. It quotes some examples of celebrity and yada yada……….
But then my question is what happens when age catch up. I do understand the need and etc but is this the reason why men go out to hunt some younger fish or SYT. Is this all normal and part of the human nature? Can we all men blame all this on human nature? Can we all put the finger on men desire which is inbuilt?
I feel the article was a bit lopsided and didn't address men's human nature correctly. It was more of observing and studying the subject of men sex desire in British perspective. I don't feel Asians culture is anything like that. I think there are lots more love and compassion and understanding in this part of the culture. I have seen and believe there exist a lot of bond and relationship strength in older couple.In all honesty, I believe for Asians culture, the marriage stuff is a very sacred step. Divorce to many are frowned upon, despise and look down.
Therefore some marriages which started out as dull and no sparks would tend to last the longer miles. Some of my acquaintance from the Indian community have a totally conservative culture. They choose a wife who they have never seen before and everything are arranged by their family according to the "STARS". Surprisingly the marriage do last. How do you explain this ? My guess is s-- is not their top priority. But then again maybe not cause the traditional village woman has to service the man without question. Relationships do improve and with children in the equation, divorces would never cross their mind.
In western culture divorce procedure are easily done and easily accessible. In addition it had become a norm when too many woman are calling for it.If only couples try harder to work out the relationship or compromise. To give and take. For me the word divorce is a foul language. Before a marriage begin, couples ought to understand that "DIVORCE" should never ever me muttered out. Once either party have cry out the foul word, it could never be taken back. The reason I am saying all this is because I feel all this are important substance for a relationship to work.
Yes, sex is important to me too. I need it everyday if I could and with as many beautiful woman as I could. But then if my wife treat me well and mutual understanding exist, even without sex when we age, the bond would still be strong.I don't know. This is just my personal view on this. I am just thinking with my head and not my "BATON".............hehehehe.
Well, according to the article it's a BIG NO. It quotes some examples of celebrity and yada yada……….
But then my question is what happens when age catch up. I do understand the need and etc but is this the reason why men go out to hunt some younger fish or SYT. Is this all normal and part of the human nature? Can we all men blame all this on human nature? Can we all put the finger on men desire which is inbuilt?
I feel the article was a bit lopsided and didn't address men's human nature correctly. It was more of observing and studying the subject of men sex desire in British perspective. I don't feel Asians culture is anything like that. I think there are lots more love and compassion and understanding in this part of the culture. I have seen and believe there exist a lot of bond and relationship strength in older couple.In all honesty, I believe for Asians culture, the marriage stuff is a very sacred step. Divorce to many are frowned upon, despise and look down.
Therefore some marriages which started out as dull and no sparks would tend to last the longer miles. Some of my acquaintance from the Indian community have a totally conservative culture. They choose a wife who they have never seen before and everything are arranged by their family according to the "STARS". Surprisingly the marriage do last. How do you explain this ? My guess is s-- is not their top priority. But then again maybe not cause the traditional village woman has to service the man without question. Relationships do improve and with children in the equation, divorces would never cross their mind.
In western culture divorce procedure are easily done and easily accessible. In addition it had become a norm when too many woman are calling for it.If only couples try harder to work out the relationship or compromise. To give and take. For me the word divorce is a foul language. Before a marriage begin, couples ought to understand that "DIVORCE" should never ever me muttered out. Once either party have cry out the foul word, it could never be taken back. The reason I am saying all this is because I feel all this are important substance for a relationship to work.
Yes, sex is important to me too. I need it everyday if I could and with as many beautiful woman as I could. But then if my wife treat me well and mutual understanding exist, even without sex when we age, the bond would still be strong.I don't know. This is just my personal view on this. I am just thinking with my head and not my "BATON".............hehehehe.
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