Curiosity, Thoughts and Whatever...

Am a bit dissapointed last night. Dissapointed with a friend. Had known him since we were in six form. I know that he was arrogant, obnoxious and lots of people don't like him. He has the Einstein look and the brain of Edison. Litterary speaking. Therefore all girls run and stay away from him cause he looks like gorilla except that he has fairer skin.

 

Anyway, I wasn't very close to him but somehow or a rather after going off separate ways and leading our own life I got to know him better during my time in UK. He was very ambitious and had only one aim and that was to become a doctor. He finally did and going into his sub-specialisation in the UK and in fact practising and working in London at the moment.

 

The point was I ignore and endure other people snarling looks when I said he was my friend. I felt no harm and ignore it. They felt I was stupid hanging and mixing around with a nerd and a loser. Through the years it went by. However, recently because I needed a favour and a help (not something difficult and large task), I told him to lean a helping hand to my bro just in case. My bro was in London first time and I just ask that my friend would be kind enough to offer a hand just in case my bro got into some difficulty.

 

He was like evasive and also reluctant to talk. Not only that, I never expected him to be so "STINGY" . I mean "STINGY" people are at the top of my list of the people I hate most. They are usually rich or super rich and pretend that they don't have a dime to spared. He didn't even buy my bro dinner and I guess he has totally lost the basic human courtesy. Courtesy and kindness are commonly reciprocated. It always take 2 to tango. No wonder, he doesn't have any gf nor friends at all.

 

Got another engineer friend also like that. Tell him to be more generous and open and he answer me that he's generous to girls he's after. He was missing the point. Before you can start tackling someone you have to get her attention and shower her with attention. In addition you need to be generous to her friends and others as well. However, he was negative and repressive about it. How to help him.